As this writer is female and experiencing life from that perspective, we will discuss this matter from that viewpoint. If the reader is male, simply switch the gender indicator to apply this to you in most things.

      Information presented here may be contrary to what the reader believes. However, you may be better able to process it more easily if you ask self “What if?”

      We humans incarnate with one or more purposes, goals. Some we share with others. Some are unique to us. One shared with all, is to become the best child of God and the Creator that we can be¹.

      One with a unique purpose now is 45-47. His purpose is to expose all that is vile, to drain the sewer. It is to pull the plug and expose all the corruption and vileness so the rest of us can clean it out. His job is not to create a new society himself but to clear the way so that we can. This is why he is so hated by so many. Vileness does not like being exposed. It must be exposed, however, so that it can be transformed and/or cleared out. Then we can all feel better.

      Another with a unique purpose is Yeshua, known to many as Jesus of Nazareth. His purpose in incarnating 2000 years ago was to become one with the Spirit of God² and the Creator³ while in physical form, manifesting divine Love for all to see and experience. His aim is to show us that it can be done and what it looks like. He manifests divine love, so we know we can do it also. Some of us incarnate to enable others to experience love in ways which will help us as individuals become our best selves.

      A woman loves a man by sharing energy with him in a way which enables him to modify himself in all ways, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, This energy can be shared sexually or not, depending on circumstances.

      Yeshua, for example, was influenced by two women in his life in particular: Mary, his mother, who is also his twin soul, and Magdalena, his mate, his partner and the mother of his children. Yeshua’s purpose is called becoming Christed, or the Christ, that is, literally becoming one with the Spirit of God and the Creator. (Both women are also Christed.)

      A purpose in loving another is so that the other may reach their highest state of being that is possible NOW. This is most frequently done in a male-female relationship as this is the easier way, but it is not required. A woman loves a man to enable him to reach a level of being that is necessary to fulfill his goals and achieve his purpose(s). Basically, to raise his vibrations, his frequencies, to the highest levels that he may be able to physically sustain.

      She loves a man in a manner which may surpass her own physical limits. This is fueled by her intent. She develops patience, insight, courage, becoming gentler, fiercer, humbler, more grateful, ruthless, and loving. Love exceeds physical limits, limited only by imagination.

      Loving in this manner has certain conditions. It is unconditional. It is without any benefit to the one who loves. Except, loving another is always beneficial to the one who loves. It is an automatic frequency raiser.

      Unconditional love is the way a parent usually loves a child. It is the way pets love their humans. It is without judgment, without criticism, without expectation. This is not easy. Seeing what can be improved is a useful trait. Many of us judge automatically, without thought. When loving another, unconditionally, however, we must suspend judgement. Accept the other as he is. This allows him to relax and be himself. This lets us drop our masks. It permits us to see each other as we truly are, to be “in love”.

      Unconditional love does not seek to influence another’s choices. The increasing of a man’s frequencies, the level at which he functions, improves his decision making and the quality of his successes. Unconditional love means to totally accept the other. Thus the other learns to feel totally accepted no matter what he does. He is loved no less no matter what.

     It is best if we express our love daily. This keeps us focused and reassures the beloved. Whenever we think of the beloved, we are present for and to each other. Spirit is unlimited.

      There are many challenges in loving another and not a few seeming contradictions.

    Notes:
      1. This writer is Creator’s Child. She has no religion.
      2. “God” is the consciousness, the luminescent, the light being,
      the one responsible for this universe.
      3. “Creator” is the consciousness that is responsible for all of creation
      which has many universes. Both God and the Creator are spirit beings.

      Our choice.